Sunday, September 25, 2016

Command ments of life - Nikhil Style

Our lives need some command ments to properly ride the tide.

Tides come often everyday.

We call it negative impact or negative people or situations.

I call it the tide.

The tide that sweeps us off our feet for a short while.

So let's start a new life by knowing the command ments to beat the tide.

IGNORE

First comes first, ignore negative people.

They are different, agony loving, disturbed, sometimes fun loving, psychos, criminal minded be it whatever they are the first tides and consume lot of our time and energy.

Ignore them like plague.

Ignore negative impacts.

Negative impact is a time to take some rest or introspection time.

You may not avoid them but just ignore them and see how you bounce back to full on energy.

SAVE MONEY

Money is a hot commodity and does not always stay.

So second rule is save money.

Save good old connections.
Save good stuff in home.
Save good dress.
Save good places.
Save time.
Save energy.
Saving helps you to deal with tides in a stronger way.

WORK

Well this has to be the first command ment but I feel you need to become stronger and then work.

Whatever.

Work you must.
Work in your job properly without any mistakes.
If you do mistakes then change it.

Work with your resources.
Use your vehicles.
Use your books.

Use your pens.
Use your body and muscles evetyday.
Go to gym.
Or simply wash clothes hands wash style.
You will see that you lose blood pressure, stress, negative tides and even get your clothes sparkling clean with no smell ever.

LEARN

Learn new skills to empower yourself.

Learn from others with no mercy.
Be ruthless when it comes to learning.

Learning creates new nerve cells no matter how old you are.

MATHS

I know you will laugh at it.
But good maths is essential for saving money and solving math puzzles everyday is proved to enhance our brains chemicals and powers.

The brain is the hidden treasure that was given to you.

Use it with a splash of math power.
And you will become a genius.
GROW PLANTS

If you have even a little space available try to grow plants.

They give us food and flowers and foliage to change our tides into power.

It changes life also.

You can make herbs to add to your food.

If you live in a winter zone then preserve or dry the produce to use in winter.

HEALTHY

I know health is not in our hands.
However we can try maximum not to eat the following.
SUGAR
Too much SALT
DAIRY
OIL
PACKAGED FOOD
WHITE RICE FLOUR PROCESSED FOODS

Eat the following
FRUITS
Vegetables or VEGGIES cooked and RAW
UNPOLISHED RICE and WHEAT LENTILS, SPROUTED BEANS, HERBS, GREENS,
Fresh VEGGIES JUICES, FRUIT JUICES WITHOUT SUGAR OR SUGAR,



Sunday, September 4, 2016

Why I must wear a mask

For the past few days I have started wearing a mask of a new personality.
Because people especially women verbally abuse me about my low voice and child like mannerisms.

I am becoming another person.
If I have to survive in India I must wear this mask.

Nowadays the most easily available mask is 'Jason Vorhees chainsaw massacres mask.' 

Esparta published on Flickr - Jason where are you? and Wikimedia


Sigh.

We speak so many great things about Indian women, and I have seen their larger majority's hitherto unknown hatred towards innocent or 'the nice guy.'

Who has always been vanishing from the world because he is not wanted here.
They love the slightly selfish and naughty 'old jokes expert' bad guy.

The one who verbally abuses people.
Oh they love him.

I am past my dating age and people think I must be like others, wearing a mask even when I sleep.
Live but live like a corpse.

Ha ha. 

Strange.

But there are women who never complained to me about my behavior. 

Some women also took the pen to fight the mask.

Nanditha K.S. a poetess who took her own life on a lonely cold merciless night.

The poetess informed her mom that she will get a phone call by 12.AM and 
when her mom woke up at midnight, she found the poetess hanging by a sari in the railings of the staircase.

This happened in 1999.

Now the poems of this poetess is all over the internet going viral.

I will write another post about the great writer and the poems.

What strength and what power in those words, that gives us an alarm bell, a wake up call from the world of masks.

The poetess hated her own mask.

But there are more women who hate me than any other group of people.
I don't hate them back,  but I just let go, and concentrate on my job.
Doing ones job in full concentration is considered bad especially if you are not manager or the CEO.

How sad.

Sometimes I laugh thinking about the masks men and women wear to please the world.
We need to be something which we are not and live some ones life.
Especially in India.
Ha ha.
Anyway I am first time attacking the bigger majority of women who have always hated me, and I don't hate them, but I feel they don't exist.
Since that's the only way I can live or else I would become another misogynistic person.
Well, would you wear mask if women call you names?
Why is there no law to fight verbal abuse from others?
Why are nice guy men defenseless against verbal abuse at work place?
So many questions.
I feel I must run away far away far away from these women, and live like spider on top of a hill.
I hope god gives me that life possibly.
Bye for now.
Keep smiling and be good to one another.
Don't verbally abuse people, for you might be wrecking your karmic balance.
Bye.